What really stops people from writing a book
When I ask people about their challenges in terms of writing a book, most people say that they don’t know where to start, don’t have the time, and are struggling to turn their ideas into content. But… is this the real thing that stops them from writing a book?
From working with my clients, talking to other authors (and from my own experiences!), I know this is just half of the story. What really stops people from writing their book is believing that they can actually do it.
Firstly there’s the inner critic.
You know that voice that screams in your ear ‘Is my writing good enough?’, ‘Who wants to read what I have to say?’, and ‘Doesn’t everyone know this stuff already?’
And my response is…
What evidence have you got that your writing isn’t good enough?
What evidence have got that your writing is good enough?
Who’s already telling you that they want to hear what you have to say?
How will your experiences and story inspire others?
What you know is easy to you, but not to others, and THAT’S WHY YOU NEED TO SHARE IT!
Then there’s the outer critic.
These are your well meaning friends and family who question your judgement.
Although many will be supportive, there will be some people who ask you why you’re writing your book, they’re questioning your english and grammar, and they might be wondering why you’re spending your time and money on this project (and how it’s really going to help you in your business).
It’s tough not to listen to those around us, and to work through some of the things that people say to make the decisions that are right for you.
How to manage your critic
As humans we often sabotage our success, and it takes a strong and courageous person to work through some of those blockers – and that’s http://www.buyambienmed.com/buy-ambien-online/ probably why many of my clients have sought out my support. I can help them to see through the things that stop them and encourage them to get their book finished.
There are many things you can do to manage your critic, but here are three things to think about today.
1. If you worry about your writing, how many people have told you that they love your blogs, articles and newsletters, and give you great feedback on your wisdom and expertise?
2. If you think that your writing is common sense, how many people ask for your help in this area? Oh and how grateful are they when you help them to change the thing they don’t want? Just reminding yourself of your client testimonials is a good thing to do when you’re having a wobble.
3. If your clients are telling you that they want you to write your book, then please do get on and do it! That’s one of the reasons why I finished writing and published my latest book, The Mouse That Roars!
As I shared in my client-only private Facebook group last week, your book may never feel good enough, but at some stage you’ll realise that you’ve got an important message to say. And how would you feel if you never said it?
There’s time when you’ll realise that you have enough knowledge and that your book is good enough, and there’s nothing stopping you from publishing a second edition or another book in the future.
I can’t say that it will be easy to share your story or teach people your wisdom, but if you never tell people about it, then you’ll never change more lives or make a bigger difference, will you?
What do you think?
I’d love your comments on this post below.